my controversial opinion as a wedding photographer
Welcome to a controversial perspective from behind the lens! As a wedding photographer, my philosophy might ruffle a few feathers:
I don’t get triggered by people taking photos with their phones during weddings.
QUICK NOTE: If our couple prefers no phones at the wedding, and/or has an “unplugged ceremony”, I FULLY support that and the photos do truly turn out 100% better without a sea of screens. And no matter what, if someone steps into my frame, I'll guide them to a better spot, find a better angle, or as a last resort, trust in the magic of photoshop.
HOWEVER. Here is why I do not get triggered when people take quick shots on their devices during weddings:
Wedding days radiate a unique kind of magic. It's not just about the blossoming bouquets or the grand venue. It’s about the raw emotion and the unforgettable moments we get to share. If Aunt Hilda feels the urge to snap a photo with her iPhone during the ceremony, it only means the moment means just as much to her, and that warms my heart. While I'm here to document every smile, tear, and embrace, I genuinely believe that the emotions and memories of the day hold precedence over any picture. Although yes, the reason for bringing on a photographer is to have someone dedicated to taking photos, and you want your guests to be present.. it’s BECAUSE they are present and overwhelmed with joy and excitement that they want to freeze moments as they see them. Their intention isn't to overshadow the professional shots, but to bask in the beauty of the day. It’s my job to work AROUND the genuine family, friends and guest interactions, and my photos do not take priority over that. Although of course, there is nothing like the elegance of an "unplugged ceremony". A photo where everyone is truly in the moment, without devices, has an unparalleled charm. But if during group shots Aunt Hilda stands beside me, trying to frame that same magical moment, I'll happily signal everyone to give her their best smiles once I've taken my snap.
After soaking in the joy from hundreds of weddings, it's not the sight of guests taking photos that stays with me, but the happiness behind those screens. While I'm weaving through the crowd, capturing laughter and tears, chasing that perfect shot for you, the beauty, (is in the eye of the iPhone holder…..kidding, dont worry), is always in the authentic moments. Here's to more of those!
